It’s a no-brainer: Internet Porn is a booming enterprise. “Sex” is the most googled word, and according to Family Safe Media, the pornography industry is larger than the revenues of the top technology companies combined: Microsoft, Google, Amazon, eBay, Yahoo!, Apple, Netflix and EarthLink. billion revenue world-wide is generated from it, billion of this is US revenue, more than all combined revenues of all professional football, baseball and basketball franchises or the combined revenues of ABC, CBS, and NBC (6.2 billion).
Something this prominent in American’s lives necessitates discussion. Most people you know watch internet porn, some of them are watching it right now. Scary? Doesn’t have to be. If you challenge yourself to strip the idea that celebrating sexuality is something to be ashamed of away from your psyche, embracing the medical proof that a healthy sex life makes people both happier and healthier, you’re giving yourself a chance at a better life.
Watching two consenting adults can not only teach you a few things, it boosts your endorphins and enhances your own sex life.
Too often I hear about women who refuse to take their clothes off unless the lights are off. It really doesn’t get any less sexy than that. If your self-esteem suffers so badly that you cannot bear the thought of being naked in front of someone who desires you, then porn is exactly what you need. In a recent poll conducted by Sexual Science Magazine, 67% of men said the biggest turn-off is a woman’s lack of confidence in the bedroom, specifically her refusal to engage in sex with lights on. Porn stars are far from role models, but the confidence they exude when having sex is generating the viewer’s attraction towards them on a sub-conscious level.
When you imagine a typical porn star, do you think of bleached hair, silicone, and a flawless, tanned figure? You are in the minority. While you won’t find people turning women like that off in disgust, studies overwhelmingly show that men prefer “real women” to this stereotype. “Amateur” videos now dominate the most popular pornography sites. Real couples, real sex, real un-airbrushed and textured bodies are what people want from their internet porn.
Blame it on the fact that porn is readily available on free porn tubes. Back in the late eighties when porn first hit the internet, the professionals were the only option. Nowadays, those girls are a dime a dozen, and they are always poor actors. A real woman with real curves, making love to her partner and loving every minute of it-now that’s hot.
Next time you get lucky, be in the moment and let go! Pretend you’re filming a xxx video and show off. When you’re having fun, so is your lover. Enhance your sex life and everything else follows. Who knows if you capture the right moment you too might end up the next You Porn star.